3 Truths to Live By to Create your Dream Life
#1 IDENTITY IS SACRED BUT NOT STATIC
Life is about expansion.
When we become conscious and deliberate with our choices on our journey we seldom are left feeling unfulfilled.
You can see how what go you here is not going to get you to the next spot you want to be.
If you want to be successful and happy in your life you have to let go of who you think you are, and create an opening for who you need to be.
You are not your possessions, your relationships, or your income. You are a precious soul who is here to grow and be delighted by possibilities as you reach beyond what is know into what is being sacredly held for you.
You are meant to let go of your past and evolve beyond it. You are here to change, butterfly.
#2 NO REGRETS ONLY LESSONS
This has gotta be the #bestadviceever to help you continue to expand.
We, and I mean everyone, can get caught up in ruminating over mistakes that have been made, especially the really dumb ones that hit you like a tonne of bricks when you see them from your evolved 'now' perspective.
Don't make the mistake of trashing yourself (or anyone else who was involved in the apparent disaster).
Value your experiences for the learnings that were offered and congratulate yourself for the courage you had to face the truth. Once you do this, you can release those memories and transform them into blessings that will usher in peace and wisdom.
Ya, I know its sounds really hard but things that are worth it often are.
Practicing this outlook will free up so much emotional energy and brain cells that you will elevate your consciousness, liberate your vitality and you'll thrive.
If you aren't sure how to do this, make reach out to a pro who can help you resolve your blocked pain and release it once and for all. It's completely doable and you don't have to be in therapy for years and years to do this. You can do it really fast. Honest. ;)
#3 BE A DELIBERATE CREATOR
Life happens FOR YOU not to you.
You are in charge and this is your movie. Make it a good one.
Discerning what you want and what makes you happy is the first step in leading an authentic and fulfilling life.
Sometimes its takes a bit of honesty to know what you really, really want because of the people and rules around us that tell us to colour inside the lines and don't risk being different ( aka authentic) or heaven forbid, you'll be thrown outta the tribe and die. None of this is true, and even if you have to leave the tribe, that's the next step to the true you.
Satisfaction comes from reaching towards the things you want, without having any thoughts that you shouldn't be wanting them. Your personal preferences are not up for negotiation and you don't need to defend them to anyone.
Just simply choose and move toward them. If you don't, you're going to start feeling like you are unworthy, undeserving, and not enough because that's what happens when we pinch ourselves off from what we really want.
Don't turn you back on yourself.
Remember this is your movie and others who are a few steps behind you are watching to see how you do it and never underestimate the power of influence you can have through simply being yourself.